What No One Else Can Do for You: The Power to Be Happy.

Happy like a puppy

Hello, dear reader!

You don’t need other people to make you happy. If you think you do, then you’re giving away your power.

That power is your ability to decide for yourself, make mistakes and be responsible and independent. In other words, it’s your ability to live, succeed and find happiness on your terms.

Choosing to rely on others to make you happy can be convenient. It can make you feel comfortable and forever safe and cared for.

But have you thought how your caregivers might feel? Being responsible for someone else’s success and happiness is a heavy burden.

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Never Try to Please Abusers – Focus On You!

Why does it hurt?

Hello, dear reader!

So many of us are in abusive relationships. We seek someone’s approval day after day and keep running into a blockade of judgment and criticism. We can travel to the Sun and back to earn the abuser’s love, attention and affection. We do whatever they ask us to do, but we always fall short in their eyes.

We must be doing something wrong here, right?

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